Marriage, The Fascinating Way

By Helen Andelin, Author of Fascinating Womanhood

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Helen Andelin

February 2005



A Log School House in the Pines

I constantly hear from young married women of today, including my own granddaughters, that their greatest problem in homemaking is taking care of the tremendous amount of laundry in their households.  It seems that the automatic washer and dryer has made more work for them than it has saved.  If you are interested in solving this plaguing problem I have a message for you, but first let me give you the following background:

     When I was 16 years old my sister, Maree taught school in Pinyon, Arizona, an almost non-existent town in the pine country of northern Arizona.  Her contract was to teach all eight grades. In her case this included very small children to cowboys over six foot tall. The schoolhouse was quite large, made of logs, had enough windows, with an enchanting atmosphere about it.  Its only heating system was a pot bellied stove in the middle of the only room, and its only water supply a small mountain stream about 50 feet down the hill.  My sister and her three small children lived in a two room house quite close to the schoolhouse.  She drew water for her household from the same small stream.  Her only heat for her household was the cooking stove in her kitchen, her only light a coal oil lantern. 

     I occasionally stayed with her – to keep her company and give her a much needed lift.  I would often stay a week or so, each time having a taste of true primitive living.  To wash the laundry I took a bucket to the small stream, filled it with water, carried it to the house and put it in a large cooking pot to heat on the stove. This required several trips to have enough to wash clothes.  In the wintertime when the ground was covered with snow, I filled the bucket with snow and put it on the stove to melt, then heat. Since snow is filled with air, it required twice as many trips for the laundry.  When the water was hot I scrubbed the clothes with home made soap on a scrubbing board that was placed in the tub of warm water.
 
     I knew exactly how to do this as I had done it many times at my grandmothers house in St. Johns. When the clothes were scrubbed and the soapy water wrung out, I placed them in tub of clean warm water, rinsed them, wrung them again with my bare hands, then pinned them on a clothesline to dry.  When dry I took the clothes off the lines, sprinkled them lightly with water, rolled them in tight little rolls and put them in a basket ready for tomorrows ironing. The tremendous amount of work required to do the laundry required strict rules of living. The children were given a Saturday night bath and allowed a set of clean clothing, which they were to wear for a week. If they got them dirty they had to suffer the consequences by continuing to wear them the rest of the week. You can be sure they were exceedingly careful to keep their clothes clean.   
   
     If you are serious about ending your laundry problems I suggest you begin by limiting each child to two sets of clothing. They are to wear one set for one full week. They must try to keep their clothes clean but if they don’t they must suffer the consequences by wearing them dirty.  No fair letting them wash their own clothes in an automatic.  That will not solve this problem. The only other alternative is to let them scrub their clothes on a scrubbing board with a bar of soap, wring them out by hand, rinse them the same way then hang them on the clothesline to dry.  They will get by without the arduous task of hauling water in a bucket but if they cooperate they will learn valuable lessons. One of the best ways to train children in anything is to let them suffer the consequences of their behavior. You can be sure that anyone who follows this method will find a way to keep their clothes clean. Your laundry will suddenly be reduced to a couple of batches a week that you can do at your leisure.

     You may want to give them a demonstration of just how to do laundry in this way. They will probably be intensely interested in this historical method of washing clothes. When washing clothes on a scrubbing board it is best to use pure bar soap.  The best is Fells Naptha Soap, which is almost like homemade soap. You can find where to order this soap on the internet.  Do a search for Fells Naptha Soap and it will appear.  You can buy a scrubbing board at most hardware stores.   

FW Live Classes: For lack of a better word we are calling our regular classes “Live Classes.” Such classes continue to be in demand. There is a great need for more volunteer teachers, women willing to devote their time and energy to this important work.  There is nothing to compare to a qualified Fascinating Womanhood teacher, one who becomes the leader and mentor of a group of women who so desperately need her help, a teacher who can stand before a group of women suffering the pain and anguish of marriage problems, even the dreaded fear of loosing the man who means more to them than anything in the world and give hope that they too can have a supremely happy marriage, if they are willing try.

     And for the teacher I can speak from personal experience that teaching a FW class brings great soul satisfaction – seeing women who begin a class with sadness in their faces and finish with bright looks of hope and joy. Even giggling sometimes returns. I have heard women say, “Oh, Fascinating Womanhood is fun to live.”  If you are such a qualified woman, I invite you to join us.  Call our office and ask for a Teacher Application Form.  Call 888-890-1750.

FW Online Classes: These are on hold for the present time.
FW Discussions:  These are also on hold for the time being.
FW Study Groups:  If you don’t have the time or confidence to teach a regular class you may want to organize a Study Group.  You don’t need a Teacher Application Form for this but you do need to call me so I can explain this to you. Call 888-890-1750.


Thought For the Month:

To work less,  think more
To worry less,  pray more