By Helen Andelin, Author of Fascinating Womanhood     

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December 2004


A Christmas Message

Before Jesus began his ministry the people in that period of time were taught to love their neighbors and hate their enemies. Then Jesus came and taught them a new doctrine. He taught them to love their enemies. This must have been hard doctrine to the stiff minded Jews, and likely the reason many did not follow him. (Matt: 5: 43, 34) But during the end of his ministry Jesus taught his disciples to live an even higher law. Here are his exact words: A new commandment I give unto you, that ye love one another as I have loved you. (John 13:34)

How did he love us? Here is how Isaiah described it: He was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes we are healed. This is a little difficult for most of us to fully comprehend but we know that his love was a sacrificial love. He suffered, bled and died for us, as an atonement for the sins of the world. And if we are to try to be like him, we must acquire this kind of love for our fellow men.

To have a Christ like love for our fellowmen, we must be willing to sacrifice for them, to feel the pinch of giving for them, even when it hurts. For this reason it is difficult for the rich to feel this kind of love, even when they give large amounts of money to the poor. It is entirely too easy for them to part with it. Take, on the other hand, someone who has $200 in their purse for this months groceries, but gives half of it to someone in urgent need. Or, the person who has two coats and gives one to someone who has none. Or even more sacrificial is the person who has only one coat, but gives it to someone who needs it much more than he does.

Money is not the only kind of giving. There is giving of our time and energy to someone in need. If you have plenty of time on your hands, time to burn, it can hardly be counted as a sacrifice for you to devote time to someone in need. But, if you are a very busy person and yet are willing to devote some of your time to someone in need or a worthy cause, this is also a part of sacrificial love. Often the busiest people are very efficient with their time and the most willing to squeeze in time for someone in need of their help. We are surrounded by people who need our time, either time to talk to them or lend a helping hand. Whatever it is, when we go to some sacrifice for someone in need, or when we are willing to go to some trouble or inconvenience to help our fellowmen - even strangers, it can be counted as sacrificial love.

Be sure to make the necessary sacrifices of time, money and energy to make a good Christmas for your children – one they will never forget. It is a wonderful way to demonstration to your children your love for them but even more it is the way to really get into the Christmas Spirit yourself. I am not suggesting you go to the extreme and squander your money, spoil your children or wear yourself out. That would be wrong. But don’t let Christmas get too bland. To do so would give your children the impression that you don’t care about them or their feelings, that you put other things in priority. It is better to skip the adult parties, gift giving and delicious goodies, and give your children a Christmas they will remember.

The crowning glory of a Christ like Christmas would be to suggest to each of your children to sacrifice something of true value, such as their favorite toy of the previous Christmas, and give it to a child who has none. Don’t pressure the child to do this, as this would undermine his feeling of personal sacrifice. It must be given voluntarily. To locate such a family in need you could ask your church minister for a referral. They are usually aware of such families in need. My husband and I did this one Christmas when our children were all still at home. Each child parted with one of his favorite presents of the previous year, beautifully wrapped and given with the heart.. They all remember it as one of their very best Christmases. I am sure it was because their sacrifice brought the true spirit of Christ into their life. Isn’t this what Christmas is all about?

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